The world normal is some sort of stereotype for anyone and everyone. Whoever fits in with the society is “Normal” and whoever is even a slightly different and he is suddenly an alien with webbed fingers.
Try being an ADHD guy in the place where people are very less aware about the disorder. Since my early days I have been criticized, mostly every teacher expect few. Those few teachers actually taught me that being different is “Normal”,
So, it doesn’t matter which method you choose but not giving in to craving of fitting in is my version of “Normal”.